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"True Stories from our Readers"

When I was a teen my parents had quit spanking me and I not on felt the need for a spanking but did not have the nerve to ask. Fortunately a female friend of mine was still spanked by her mother. Bonnie and I got in trouble together one evening and her mother was very upset. I attempted to calm her down but to no avail. Bonnie's mother finally told me that if I was going to hang around their house that I would have to obey their rules or be disciplined the same way she disciplined her kids. I agreed to her rules and both Bonnie and I were spanked that day. After that date I received several spankings from her for misbehavior. She was a strict but loving adult that helped shape my life.

John

I am so glad I came across your web site. You have explained everything I have felt in my need to be spanked. From childhood to this day. The emotional need is so real... Yes, do to embarrassment I never vocalized my spanking need to my parents. So my need never was filled. Now I am grown and married. I did share my spanking desire with him. But most are in fun. Well as you said, the need for real therapy spanking are very few and far between. Also short lived, not given long enough, for the emotional release I so long for. I have attempted to finding a women who would fill this need, but not in a sexual way. But always backed away from that. Feeling af if I was doing something wrong in looking beyond my own front door. It can be a dangerous thing to venture out to people you know nothing about. I am Christian as well, and do not wish to fulfill any sexual agenda's from another party. My spanking need is not a fetish nor a sexual one at all. So I just go on with my need unfulfilled. But now that I have found this website, perhaps if the love of my life reads it he will finally understand what I am wanting from my need for spanking in my life. But anyway that's my story in a nutshell.

Debbie


My Aunt Died. I was so sad and after returning home from the funeral I was a mess. I went straight to my Mistresses Home and I knew that she would know what I needed. Even without telling her. She always knows these things even before I do. She gently put me over her knee and spanked me hard. When I broke...I cried for about an hour. It was just what I needed. She held me and I don't think I have ever felt so loved after that.

swingoutboi


I never really had parents who cared about where i was or what i was doing until my freshman year of high school. A senior who i had gotten close to caught me skipping and doing things i should not have been doing so one day he asked me if i would go home with him which i did and he told me how i had messed up and how upset he was. He laid me over his bed took off his belt and began to spank me. However i did squirm and fight a lot after that i felt much better like i was loved and cared for. He is still my daddy and when i mess up and i get spanked it makes me feel like a little child again and makes me feel better. Its like it fills and emotional need as well and makes me feel like no matter what he loves me and cares for me. I don't think ill ever not need my daddy he helps me so much and i thank god for him.

 

L


My name is Britney and I am 26 years old. I did not realize that I enjoyed being spanked until my wedding night. My new husband playfully took me over his knee and spanked me. I discovered that I enjoyed it and wanted more. That was two years ago and my husband regularly spanks me now. Sometimes he spanks me with his hand and sometimes with a small wooden paddle.  Being spanked has revolutionized my passion.  When my husband spanks me, it makes me feel so sexy. 


Spanking have impacted my life in a good way during childhood.  Now, as an adult I continue to love being spanked for correction so that i can continue to behave like an adult.  Ever since childhood I was always spanked with a small strap or a belt, and I can tell you I didn't like it or enjoy it.  I know that  because they were all dsicpline or punishment spankings, and it was not meant for fun or foreplay.  But ever since childhood I've always wanted to experience different implements as such as the paddle.

But as a child I was always afraid of the paddle.  Especially if it was a big thick heavy one.  But I don't mind thin small lightweight paddles but big ones I try to run away from..lol Now, in school I was spanked with a small lightweight ping pong paddle, and it wasn't really all that bad.  I only experienced receiving one lick with it on my bottom, and honestly I really liked it!

And from then on that made me realize that I wanted to experience other different kinds and sizes of paddles.  Now being paddled at home that never happened.  I've always wished that it did though. Especially by my grandmother.  Oh, I've always thougth and known her and a straighter paddler.  Because, I saw her owning 3 lightweight paddles on the top of her closet in her house that she was living in when I was born.

I was like, "Wow, those 3 paddles looked earie and scary to me.  I've always said to myself, "Whenever I'm around grandma I'd better be on my best behavior.  Or, I'll be getting the paddle or the small strap from her."  But from what I've heard from a couple of my male cousins told me and another one of my male cousins saying that one day they acted up at her house, and she pulled out all of her spanking paddles, and she paddled them both once with 3 light swats on their buttocks, and they told another one of our male cousins that it didn't even hurt.  She didn't hurt us at all.

And her come one year as I once lived with her when I was at the age of 13 or 14 she still owned one of those small thin lightweight paddles.  Was still earie-lookng to me...lol  So, I still made sure at the age of 13 and 14 to be on my  best  behavior with her.  Or else that I would be probably experience getting the paddle by her very regularly.  But I honestly nowadays I honestly don't think that she would have caused me any pain as a kid.  She might have paddled me with more licks or swats but it probably wouldn't have been all that bad.  I probably could have taken it.

My male cousin that I was also living at the time tried explaining to me and telling me that, "If she had ever paddled me it wouldn't have hurt me."  "Or, she wouldn't have paddled me in a sense of hurting me."  I honestly think that what my male cousin was trying to tell me that she might paddled me very gently in form or of a way of me liking the spanking or paddling.  I also honestly think that he wanted to experience or feel the paddle as well by her.  But he also knew that paddles do hurt, and I also always knew that as well.  But nowadays as an adult I always fantasize of her being my partner of spanking me with the paddle.  I really truly want to feel the paddle.

Well, this my story of spanking, and how it has impacted my life.

 

In Regards,

Shannon


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