With all the predators and fakes in the spanking scene, it's often extremely difficult for anyone, especially men, to find a spanking partner they can feel safe and comfortable with. I've heard stories of endless chatting, flying across the country to be stood up, even men posing as women. Many people crave the experience of spanking, but wish to keep spanking totally out of their vanilla lives because of family, career, or other personal reasons, and need a private and confidential place to explore the spanko within. Others have seen professional domme's, only to be disappointed with their inability to connect on the spanking level. I am a born spanko. I remember fantasizing about over-the-knee spankings when I was still in a toddler in diapers. I get it! Simply put, when you come to see me for a spanking, you will get a traditional, over-the-knee spanking by an authentic spanko, a real person, and if I might add, a darn good-hearted and fun person to hang out with! Your safety is of utmost importance to me. If you have health problems of any kind, talk to me so I might accommodate them. The same words or phrases that might thrill one person could bring back bad memories in another. It is imperative you communicate with me before your spanking, so it's a good experience for everyone! Almost everyone I've met has felt very nervous before the meeting, but by the time you walk in the door, we'll have exchanged a few e-mails and a phone call, and I'll have a good idea as to what you're looking for. We might talk about your wishes and feelings on spanking before the session begins, or if you need calming, I'll take you over my lap immediately, which serves a double purpose of allowing me to test your pain tolerance. You can expect to be treated strictly, but with kindness and respect. I will never put you down; I'll only criticize the behavior that needs correction. Sometimes, in role-play, an element of embarrassment is desired, and in those cases, I am happy to be flexible. As a spanker, I love to push the spankee... spankings hurt, and they're supposed to hurt. That doesn't mean I can't play lightly if the bottom has a lower pain tolerance... I just love to take you right to that edge, but not let you fall, so to speak. Someone recently said, "No, Audrey, you pushed me right over that edge, but you were there to catch me at the bottom." Sometimes pushing limits means working to achieve tears or talking through issues. But most often, it means continuing to spank soundly long after the spankee's realized that spankings really DO hurt! However, I will always spank within your reasonable limits. I think the thing that sets me aside from many (but certainly not all!) other spankers is that I care about the spankee. I love helping people, and I love spanking. I've had a ton of experience in topping and bottoming and use what I've learned by watching cues from the spankee. You will see on my blog the various places I offer sessions and special travel announcements. Generally, I offer sessions in New Jersey, about an hour from Penn Station, or in Grand Rapids or Detroit, Michigan. For my safety, there will always be a friend in the house, who will not intrude unless I call for help. I will never, ever allow sex, strap-ons, intimate touching or masturbating. This is a spanking experience only, and you won't find me allowing anything I haven't done on video. I do not practice other BDSM activities, and while I respect the leather lifestyle, it's not for me. Occasionally a switchable spanko or Top contacts me for references to bottoms for hire. Occasionally, I can offer a switching session to very trustworthy clients, or for those wishing to hire another bottom, some of the men and women in my videos may offer private bottoming sessions. Thank you for your interest. If you are an adult who would like to set up a session, please write me at audreyknight@live.com and please check out my website, www.audreystylespanking.com.