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[ButtPain]

A 1960s style panty girdle worn during a spanking will sting like the dickens, worse than on the bare. So will control-top pantyhose.
These work well even if you are male but that's another forum!

[espressojunkie]

I agree about water. My dad used to spank me right after showers sometimes and they really hurt!

[too cheeky]

Excelent idea I think I am going to get a nice womens bikini bottom for him and get it nice and wet and have him slip it on for a little correction!

A pair of thin, white women's knickers would work better, I think, than bikini panties. Ah, to each bottom her own.

[too cheeky]

Can any offer some suggestions for making spankings sting more? or suggest a paddle which will really sting?

Thanks

I am always amazed that in mid spanking, when my bottom is a little used to a strap or hand, that using a three fingered tawse
shockingly brings back an incredible sting to each stroke.

[Heatmaker]

Okay, I tried to keep my mind on work and not check the board but I just can't help it. And this topic is an especially interesting one. The responses so far are well thought out, so I don't know how much I could add, but here goes:

In addition to type of implement, condition of bottom (wet, oiled, dry, pre-spanked, waxed, varnished, etc)....

1) Position - for example, thin, whippy implements tend to do a better job when the bottom's skin is stretched out. Bending over, arching the butt up etc.

2) Individual comfort level. - I don't think there is just one specific implement that does it for everyone. For example, a good caning or wide strap can put me into a very happy place quickly, but most of my spankees fear those worse than death. However, a light, palm sized brush makes me climb the walls.

3) technique - high velocity, rapid succession. This is where us guys tend to fail. Many of us try to use strength as the key to spanking, when in fact it is precision and speed.

4) area of the bottom - the fleshier parts sting more in my opinion. You should always be spanking on fleshy parts, of course, but mid cheek down is the right area


For sting though, I think we can agree....high surface area relative to weight (brushes, thin paddles, tawse).

[ljs]

If spanking a male, make him orgasmfirst. That makes the spanking sting much more.

For either gender, have the spankee sit on very cold metal (from the freezer), or some ice packs right before. Being spanked as you "thaw" stings like crazy.