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Posted 01 June 2008 - 10:54 AM

Hi- I''m still new to this.

What are some good positions if you are self spanking?

What are other punishments which may be effective?

What other items from the house would be best used to self spank? (I know some basics, but wanted to see if anyone had other ideas or something which works well).

Please any input or other sugestions would help

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Posted 01 June 2008 - 11:56 AM

I used the switch from the window blinds. That worked really well for a while and a belt. I would do it bear bottom spanking no jeans laying flat on your stomach on the bed.

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Posted 01 June 2008 - 05:46 PM

Things I''ve been told via email: switch (tree branch), belt, wooden spoon (?), and cutting board.

Positions: Over bed with pillows under you

Are there any others? I know one I was think is an old guitar string- I''m not sure though- it may cut into skin instead of just sting/hurt. I was also thinking of a metle coat hanger- like taking it apart and using it (I guess it would be like the switch tho)? I''m not sure- I''m very new to this as you can all probably tell.

Thanks, keep ideas coming please



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Posted 01 June 2008 - 06:58 PM

The only way to tell if the guitar string would hurt is to try it on your self. Try a cutting board. My Mom use to use that on my brother all the time.

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Posted 01 June 2008 - 09:58 PM

I recently had a mentor that lives in pitt...grrr cause i live in denver... but for a self spanking I use my couch and if you need to use a speaker phone use a cell phone and put it on a chair so your face is also by the chair it works well because they can hear you spank your self too... also for objects there is the hair brush, i have used a horse whip once before NOW THAT ONE SMARTS... and the metal hanger is a good idea but you have to double layer it because it bends wayyy to easily like the end of a fly swatter that has a metal handle thingy that one didn''t bend. Other punishments are mouth full of soap =( which I think my mentor will be making me do tomorrow or some time soon cause I swore =( Feel free to message me also try using a ping pong paddle now that stings very much soo and a the right kind of spachula hurts.

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 01:15 AM

Thank you so much for your help- what do you guys think of corner time- if you apply it yourself? Is it effective for you, or just another thing to do?

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 06:14 AM

I don''t like corner time. I think it''s for children. I like just to be spanked, made to be written reports, and lines during punishment procedure. That''s what works best for me.

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 11:08 AM

QUOTE('Christina @ 'Jun 2 2008, 04:14 AM)
I don''''t like corner time. I think it''''s for children. I like just to be spanked, made to be written reports, and lines during punishment procedure. That''''s what works best for me.



My question isn''t if we like it- but is it effective. Does it actually help in the end?

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 11:50 AM

corner time.... I think it can be very affective especially the leading moments up to the punishment time plus after your spanking it makes you remember how much it hurt because you can''t touch your bottom...also my mentor isn''t afraid to use soap in the mouth if I swear in front of a lady.

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 04:18 PM

Self spanking positions tried - across the bed, over a chair, kitchen island, standing in a bent over position. Items used - belt, riding crop, spaghetti measure (similar to a wodden paddle), cane, hair brush, bath brush and plastic spatula. I find riding crop/belt best if looking for a sharp sting. Hard to get full impact when self spanking. Can sometimes land in unexpected places but you can end up with red hot cheeks with most implements!! Interested in other positions tried by others.

May you have the hindsight to know where you've been, the foresight to know where you're going and the insight to know when you're gone too far.

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Posted 02 June 2008 - 11:14 PM

I found that laying on your back, lifting legs is a "good" position for self spanking. Allows control/strength sad.gif

(I''ve never had to use soap before in my mouth- doesn''t sound fun!)

For belt: I read the other day, holding it in your right hand swinging it around your left side letting it hit your right side- works well- haven''t tried it yet.

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 05:36 AM

QUOTE('akspank11 @ 'Jun 3 2008, 01:14 AM)
I found that laying on your back, lifting legs is a "good" position for self spanking. Allows control/strength \:\(

(I''''ve never had to use soap before in my mouth- doesn''''t sound fun!)

For belt: I read the other day, holding it in your right hand swinging it around your left side letting it hit your right side- works well- haven''''t tried it yet.

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I only spanked myself one time and while it hurt like the dickens, I needed the hugs and the cuddles afterwords....that to me is a big part of this. I guess it stems from not getting alot of affection growing up. Anyway, corner time which I need, the scolding, then the spanking was how Daddy and I did it. I layed on the couch face down and used a bathbrush...heavy plastic one...which stung like crazy.

We both found this to not be as effective for me, so that''s why we started looking into finding a spanker here in NJ as well.

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 05:38 AM

as for other punishments....the one that works well for me is being sent to bed early. I am an early to bed person anyway, but being sent there and knowing I have to stay there is very effective for me.

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 11:27 AM

I have to self spank cos i have no-one to do it for me \:\(
I usually start out up on my knees (not bending over on them) and start over thin shorts or leggings (this lessens the bruising and if you wet the shorts first it intensifies the pain, specially when you take them off to continue the spanking!!)
Then when i''''ve taken off the shorts i lay on my tummy on the carpet, often with a pillow under my tummy, and continue spanking.
The most effective implement ive found is a wooden bath brush...it has a good long handle and is thick wood so delivers a good hard sting.
The other things I use are...wooden spoon (this was my favourite til i got the bathbrush), wooden spatula (with holes and without), rubber spatula, thick soled sandal. Ive tried with a belt but couldnt get a good enough swing to make it hurt (any tips on that one?).

Good luck...and enjoy!!!! \<img src=" border="0" alt="tongue.gif" />

ps, corner time; i sometimes use this (well naughty step actually!), but this is only when i am spanking as an AB, and when my online Daddy has commanded it. Its usually ten minutes sitting on my sore spanked butt. Owweeeee!!!!

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 12:46 PM

Thank you for your input, it has helped a lot. Everyone has said a wooden spoon, I''m going to get one today- we''ll see what happens.

Idea sent to me via email: cutting a switch and then soaking it in hot water (sounds like a major discipline)

Does anyone have set guide lines they choose to follow- like if you do this, then this will happen? If so, how do you set those up- I tend to be to easy on myself.

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Posted 04 June 2008 - 05:28 PM

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Posted 04 June 2008 - 07:03 PM

I found this site to be helpful. I have personally tried the advice given and found it quite effective.

www.spankingcinema.com/~spankingimplementresearch/selfspank/index_selfspank.htm

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Posted 10 June 2008 - 01:01 PM

I enjoyed the reading, have used the implements mentioned--except for the bath brush. I have "lit up" my backside often but not for a long time and have never felt fully satisfied from a self spanking. One suggestion that hurts and stings and welts like everything is an electrical extension cord. Use your dominant hand and adjust the swing of the cords to strike different places on either cheek. You can make yourself dance around that way but, since you are in control, you never get a full experience. I am standing and bare.

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Posted 10 June 2008 - 05:53 PM

I've 'enjoyed' all he implements mentioned including the cane, but best of all for me is the Jokari bat. Here's an idea for self 'punishment' sensation: put fresh nettles down your pants..lots...and leave them there as long as you can. Sit down on them. Try it. But have a bowl of cold water and some antihistamine cream ready!
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Posted 10 June 2008 - 10:04 PM

QUOTE (Mal @ Jun 10 2008, 04:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've 'enjoyed' all he implements mentioned including the cane, but best of all for me is the Jokari bat. Here's an idea for self 'punishment' sensation: put fresh nettles down your pants..lots...and leave them there as long as you can. Sit down on them. Try it. But have a bowl of cold water and some antihistamine cream ready!

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