19 replies to this topic

[Jameson]

So, my girlfriend and I both live with family. This makes finding the time and privacy for spankings difficult, to say the least. We're both getting very frustrated.

I was wondering if anyone out there has suggestions for silent spanking options. I saw a post on here earlier asking much the same advice, but most responses suggested cane use, which is something Girlfriend and I both agree we aren't interested in.

[otkOhioLA]

I used to have a toy (maybe I need to look for it?) that was just a leather shoelace on a stick - it could be gently tantalizing or brutal as a cane but made very little noise.

(If you do use one, take great care to protect your gf's most delicate areas so the tip of the leather doesn't wind up flicking in there. I suggest reaching around front and cupping your hand over to avoid any unwanted injury.)

[Jameson]

That's not a bad idea, otkOhioLA. I may have to look into finding one of those.

Haha, Mistress. Not quite the sounds I was worried about with pillows aplenty.

[Louise]

We have a loopy cane, which is very quiet. It is a very thin small cane bent into a loop, with a handle. It looks quite innocuouc, but it is very painful, but quiet.

Louise

[spankjoeyhard]

Various kinds of gags can be used, also a cane is not as noisy as a paddle.

[undisciplinedandneedy]

If you apply bengay or capcazin cream to the buttocks it feels just like the burn of a spanking.

[Fiona]

Rubber bands or bristle side of hairbrush

[WhenInRome]

Wouldnt capcazin cream just make it numb?

[Sunrisechaser]

The glue sticks that go into hot glue guns are about 12 inches long, and do a great job. They are fairly commonplace around a crafters house, so no one asks questions either.

[male2spank in texas]

Perhaps a horse hair whip is what you seek.

Regards,

M2S

[Arizona]

A loopy johnny is quiet. Well, it's a quiet implement, the spankee's reaction usually isn't.

[AssuminThePosition]

Find a song with a lot of clapping in it, turn it up loud enough so the clapping is heard, but not loud enough to bring a knock to the bedroom door (and make sure the door is locked!) and time the spanks with the clapping on the song.

[Hobbit]

As far as household items go, a stretched out metal clothes hanger doesn't make a lot of noise

[ERyck]

playing (loudly) music with a strong heavy beat, matching the music using small wooden spoon consistently and firmly without loud swats will hold the spankee's attention before long..

[esoeh]

I have always been a fan of the plastic rods used to close window blinds. they can be quite quiet and also leave anywhere from light stripes tothick weals depending on how you use them.

[cat627]

Find a song with a lot of clapping in it, turn it up loud enough so the clapping is heard, but not loud enough to bring a knock to the bedroom door (and make sure the door is locked!) and time the spanks with the clapping on the song.

Lol we live with my parents , and we tried this at the beginning! We both love DDR and have a dance mat and all the games downstairs, My parents knew we played and that music has a lot of clapping/stomping sounds.... We gave it up for two reasons.... First of all the timing was pretty awkward, and when we suddenly would put up DDR, the duration it was on, seemed a bit unnatural... Second of all, no matter how serious the offense, how much it hurt or how angry my husband was.... As he "Spanked to the beat" We couldn't help but bust out laughing!!!! Oh geez... And the wrong lyrics would show up at the wrong time.... Well it kind of flopped =p

More to the point of privacy, how will you deal with the "look" of a young lady having just been spanked? Tears, red eyes, overall appearance.........if you both live with family it could be very difficult to conceal the after-effects of a spanking.

Actually this isn't a problem for us living with my parents... And I visit them and talk throughout the day.... After a spanking, I just stay "Busy" or "Preoccupied" downstairs for awhile... in the privacy of our bedroom... and I wait to come out until I've freshened up a bit.... Even visiting with friends relatives, there is always the guest room, and I don't think you're expected to be socializing 24/7 It's pretty easy to get away for a little bit... Now if you don't have the privacy of a guest room.... Well that's another story, though in that case I don't think a spanking would be done at all to begin with there...