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List of Female Disciplinarians in the US

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Hey there, everybody. I was just curious if we can talk about female disciplinarians or spanking professionals and hear from those who have visited one and what was their experience was like. I would also like to know if there is a good list of female disciplinarians/professionals in the USA. For me, I have visited Auntie Rhi in Alabama and Miss Samantha in Phoenix, Arizona. Both of them were very sweet and I got to sit down and chat with both of them before they started to give me a spanking. I got an over the knee hand, and small paddle spanking from Miss Samantha and I got an over the knee hand, hairbrush and small paddle spanking from Auntie Rhi. Both of them were very comforting after the spanking.

I would love to hear from anyone out there who has visited a female disciplinarian/professional and how it all went. Thanks.

Cameron

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Hey there, everybody. I was just curious if we can talk about female disciplinarians or spanking professionals and hear from those who have visited one and what was their experience was like. I would also like to know if there is a good list of female disciplinarians/professionals in the USA. For me, I have visited Auntie Rhi in Alabama and Miss Samantha in Phoenix, Arizona. Both of them were very sweet and I got to sit down and chat with both of them before they started to give me a spanking. I got an over the knee hand, and small paddle spanking from Miss Samantha and I got an over the knee hand, hairbrush and small paddle spanking from Auntie Rhi. Both of them were very comforting after the spanking.

I would love to hear from anyone out there who has visited a female disciplinarian/professional and how it all went. Thanks.

Cameron

Cameron,

Do you have contact information on Miss Samantha? I understand she is in the Phoenix area, but everything I have found for her is no longer current.

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In today's economy there are very few men I know who could afford to part with $250.00 for a spanking.

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Amen! I couldn't afford to part with $250 in a booming economy!! So, are you saying that getting spanked is only a luxury for the very wealthy?

In today's economy there are very few men I know who could afford to part with $250.00 for a spanking.

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Only for the wealthy?

My personal opinion is that no matter how much money one has, it is fiscal foolishness to pay for the following things, and they all start with "s":

spankings, sex, singles ads/matchmaking services.

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From what I read the individual who posted apears to have the capabilities of seeking a Domme or Dommes on their own as they seem to have already researched the matter as they found two different individuals in two different areas.

As for money, it is like asking "Should I pay $250.00 for a spanking?" or "Is it OK to pay $250.00 for a spanking?" How can anyone even answer that question. That is no one elses business what the do with their own money and the transaction is between them and the Domme. It is also similiar as to a Domme asking "Should I charge $250.00 for a spanking?". Again no one an possibly answer that question as it is none of our business what someone charges for their "services".

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Hey there, everybody. I was just curious if we can talk about female disciplinarians or spanking professionals and hear from those who have visited one and what was their experience was like. I would also like to know if there is a good list of female disciplinarians/professionals in the USA. For me, I have visited Auntie Rhi in Alabama and Miss Samantha in Phoenix, Arizona. Both of them were very sweet and I got to sit down and chat with both of them before they started to give me a spanking. I got an over the knee hand, and small paddle spanking from Miss Samantha and I got an over the knee hand, hairbrush and small paddle spanking from Auntie Rhi. Both of them were very comforting after the spanking.

I would love to hear from anyone out there who has visited a female disciplinarian/professional and how it all went. Thanks.

Cameron

hi Cameron

Haven't seen Samantha or Aunti rhi; though i have had a few emails with them. If you are back in the phoenix area.Miss Chriss is fabulous, Elizabeth Burns is very good as well. If your going by Carmel california dana specht is very friendly and knows how to use the strap quite well. Ihave yet to see Miss Holly in Atlanta; but i a building the nerve. I have spokenwith Kelly payne in NY on a number of occassions but find it hard to get the schedules to match.

If i missed anybody please let me know. guess i will have to come see you and make sure i remember your name

if there are any non-professional ladies that would like to have some idea how they doit and what makes them special please contact me directly

bill

billstar606@yahoo.com

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Samantha has retired as a professional.

Cameron,

Do you have contact information on Miss Samantha? I understand she is in the Phoenix area, but everything I have found for her is no longer current.

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I would love to hear from anyone out there who has visited a female disciplinarian/professional and how it all went. Thanks.

Cameron<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

hi Cameron

Haven't seen Samantha or Aunti rhi; though i have had a few emails with them. If you are back in the phoenix area.Miss Chriss is fabulous, Elizabeth Burns is very good as well. If your going by Carmel california dana specht is very friendly and knows how to use the strap quite well. Ihave yet to see Miss Holly in Atlanta; but i a building the nerve. I have spokenwith Kelly payne in NY on a number of occassions but find it hard to get the schedules to match.

If i missed anybody please let me know. guess i will have to come see you and make sure i remember your name

if there are any non-professional ladies that would like to have some idea how they doit and what makes them special please contact me directly

bill

billstar606@yahoo.com

Bill, I am looking to get spanked for the first time- I'm in Phoenix and I was thinking of going with Miss Chriss. I'm hesitant to get into any of this and I was just wondering- do you have to get a hotel room or is there a fixed location where you meet up with them? Please elaborate on your visits with Miss Chriss and Elizabeth Burns, I want to know what I'm getting myself into.

Thanks a lot!

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Bill, I am looking to get spanked for the first time- I'm in Phoenix and I was thinking of going with Miss Chriss.

That's a very good choice. She really understands what makes spankers and spankees tick and will spend time out of session with you, either by e-mail or phone, or meet for lunch and help you to understand just what it is that you're looking for.

She works out of her home, so there's no need to go to a hotel, and, unlike a "do everything including spanking" dominatrix, you won't feel like you're going into a dungeon when you really have it in mind that you're going over Mom's knee.

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Back to the original topic of this post. I am a female disciplinarian in Grand Rapids, MI. There are a small handful of us in this state.

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Great for you and Grand Rapids. Utah has no female disciplinarians; i don't guess any Utah Woman would ever even think about it.

Would be great if some Female disciplinarians decided to relocate to Utah! Lots of opportunity here!

Back to the original topic of this post. I am a female disciplinarian in Grand Rapids, MI. There are a small handful of us in this state.

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Please allow me to play devil's advocate for a moment about paying female spankers. I saw a man about 6 months ago who met up with a woman he met online. They met a few times in public, things went well. He proceeded to see her for a spanking. She hurt him so bad, he had scars on his bottom. There is a danger for men as well as women when it comes to spanking.

I take great care when I spank someone. I will spank someone and they will feel it for days ~ but there is not one bruise on them. I take such pride in what I do.

I'm safe, sane and most importantly discreet.

Here is the way I look at it:

If discretion in tantamount in your life ~ be it sex or spanking ~ go see a professional.

Sorry just my 2 cents.

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Would just like to add my 2 cents to this topic, although my point appears to already have been made by several of the people who responded... I'm a professional female disciplinarian in NC, & yes, I do charge for my services. (MUCH less than $250 a session, though!) The way I see it, I'm basically a mentor, life coach, counsellor -- not simply someone who will give a spanking session for a fee. I'm not putting down Dommes -- I've known quite a few & I spent a few years as one myself back in the stone age -- but what I, & most other Disciplinarians, do is more than just deliver a spanking. I am very selective about who I work with, & it IS work. I provide discipline as a means to an end (was that a pun? oops), as a consequence for pre-agreed upon rules for people who want to change certain things in their lives but need outside help in the form of the threat (& delivery) of a spanking if they backslide. I don't see strangers who just want to come get a fetish spanking; my clients communicate with me several times a week & I keep track of how they're doing with the goals they have set for themselves. When they start slipping up, it's time for an in-person session, & those sessions are not meant to be fun or kinky (again, nothing wrong with that, just not what I'm here for.) People pay other types of counsellors -- psychologists, personal trainers, etc. -- for their work, & what I do takes time & effort. Do I genuinely want to help my clients? Of course. But do I have an endless supply of spare time? No. My rates are very reasonable & affordable, but just as I wouldn't expect a personal trainer or a yoga teacher to work with me for free, I wouldn't give my services away for free either. And I'd like to point out one other thing about dealing with a professional: my needs or desires do not enter into it -- I'm here to help my clients, not satisfy my own fantasies. Professionals (the reputable ones, at least) are safe, sane & well, professional, about what we do.

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Does anyone know of any professional female spankers in MA, CT or New England generally? We used to have Chloe Sturn in Hartford and Miss Sinthia in Worcester, but neither seem to be working any longer, and I have been very naughty ...

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Since I agree with the pro-professional remarks above, I won't repeat the same arguments. One thing I DO agree with from the con-professional side: $250 is definitely out of reach for a lot of people, especially during a recession. My prices are much more economical than $250 a spanking, since I don't think the rich should be the only ones able to buy what they need. Maybe during better economical times, I'll raise my prices a bit, but for now I try to do my part to keep sessions affordable! I DO charge a bit more for roleplay sessions (which I see as falling more into the fetish category, & therefore "fun" spankings) than for mentoring sessions, but not that much more.

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As a female disciplinarian, I can see why some would charge for these services. Alot of time and investment is made in a person's life often at great cost to the spanker. But for me personally charging gets in the way of what I am trying to accomplish in the spankee/mentee's life. I want my focus to be on their needs and behavior, not if and how much I am getting paid. I admire those who charge and give true attention. However, any one seeking a spanking must be aware of those who are on a power trip and charge because they can. Sadly, they give those of us women who are just trying to impact a life, a really bad name and reputation.

I think a list of professionals across the US in both genders would be helpful, whether it be gathered here or elsewhere. I don't claim to be a professional but certainly offer my services.

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Wow...spank me! I can't find anyone in NY (hard to travel to the city for me) and would love to be held accountable.

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Wow...spank me! I can't find anyone in NY (hard to travel to the city for me) and would love to be held accountable.

Hi raremalegem,

I can recommend a lady called Randi, who is a professional spanking switch in midtown. You can find her advertising on Craig's List, under Casual Encounters with titles like "Spanking Therapy... Happiness is a Warm Bum!"

Have fun.

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I would highly recommend Michelle, SecondChanceOTK on this site, near Flint, MI.

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Hi,

I was wondering if anyone has had any experience with Miss Jennifer for San Antonio... I see she is planning on a trip the the DC area next month and I am curious. Cannot seem to find any reviews anywhere about this lady.

Thanks!

Andrew

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Hi,

I was wondering if anyone has had any experience with Miss Jennifer for San Antonio... I see she is planning on a trip the the DC area next month and I am curious. Cannot seem to find any reviews anywhere about this lady.

Thanks!

Andrew

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I HAVE MET WITH MISS JENNIFER. NICE LADY AND SHE CAN GIVE A GOOD SPANKING AS WELL

BILL

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Another great topic to add my proverbial 2 cents too.

Many good points have been made. As a maternal styled mentor/disciplinarian I offer a lot of additional support such as availability to chat on the phone, emails, meet & greets, and of course actual sessions. Ironically my vanilla sister informed me yesterday that she thinks I undercharge my spankees. My feelings are that reliable, caring, spanking services provided in a safe & sane environment, where your limits & anonymity are respected should not be something that is reserved for only a few. Perhaps that is why I have a spankee willing to come all the way from Canada for my services, as he knows he is in good hands.

If I didn't care about the people I work with I would simply stop doing this. I love what I do & feel it is an honor and a privilege to have someone entrust themselves to me for guidance, mentoring, and discipline.

Happy Spankings To All,

MaMa Blue

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I agree we should formulate a list of all the proper disciplinarians out there. I'm in LA and have been to Strict Jane. I don't know of any others where I am, but have heard of Ms. Aria - she's in North Carolina and Miss Chris who is in Phoenix AZ. Hate to mention it but I've been to a dominatrix before and considered never going to a professional anything after that experience! She charged an insane amount, and I felt almost embaressed to say I only wanted to be spanked and caned! However, have been scouting the net for a while now, and there does seem to be some good disciplinarians out there. Strict Jane is actually a real life coach - i did a 4 week course with her. She takes it all seriously, no kinkiness or anything which was a relief and more what I wanted. At the start I wanted a spanking and she did, then in one of the sessions she spanked me when I didn't complete one of my tasks, which I had set for myself. She gave me the pre agreed whipping with one of her straps for that. She knows how to use it for sure. She does straight out discipline sessions as well, without the life coaching. her website is strictjane.com For those of you in Phoenix, Miss Chris' website looks good - it is: missschris.com. For those in North Carolina, I found Ms Aria - her site is freewebs.com/msariadt. Some of the other ones I have found are in England, and one in Australia. Please could someone list the websites to the other disciplinarians? some are hard to find by googling. :rolleyes:

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I find it difficult to accept paying for spanking, in any form. I do understand that there are people that need to make a living but I would never be able to pay or be paid for being involved in such a fun activity.

I have had lots of women ask me how much I charge for giving spankings and B&D sessions. I always tell them, that there is no charge, I enjoy it way too much to charge. I do spend a lot of time preparing for sessions though (cleaning my paddles and floggers, making the dungeon smell fresh, sterilizing the vibrators, etc.)

Perhaps I need to rethink this money thing. LOL!

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