Ladydi1973

Female Disciplinarian

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I'm a very experienced disciplinarian who wont put up with a lot of stuff. I spank for valid reasons and only those who are serious about needing help or wanting to change thier behavior. If you act like a child you best be prepared to be treated like one. This includes spankings, corner time, mouth soaping, and punishment assignments. I take what i do very serious and i don't play games. With me you will either behave or truely wish you had because sitting will be very difficult once i'm done teaching you what it is you need to learn. I'm honest and open and vey descreet and if you wish to contact me i look forward to getting to know you. I live in Arizona and i have been known to travel for the right person.

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I'm a very experienced disciplinarian who wont put up with a lot of stuff. I spank for valid reasons and only those who are serious about needing help or wanting to change thier behavior. If you act like a child you best be prepared to be treated like one. This includes spankings, corner time, mouth soaping, and punishment assignments. I take what i do very serious and i don't play games. With me you will either behave or truely wish you had because sitting will be very difficult once i'm done teaching you what it is you need to learn. I'm honest and open and vey descreet and if you wish to contact me i look forward to getting to know you. I live in Arizona and i have been known to travel for the right person.

This lady is very good i had the privlage over going over her knee

and she got a wicked hand look out naughty boys and girls she means

busines when she spanks

I know that fir a fact :o

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So, she joined yesterday.. posted a post and you responded 20 minutes later saying she is great. What a coincidence.

When did you meet with her?

What are her references?

Where is she located?

What does she use?

How many people has she spanked?

These are all verryyyyy important things that a spankee would need to know.

kindy

This lady is very good i had the privlage over going over her knee

and she got a wicked hand look out naughty boys and girls she means

busines when she spanks

I know that fir a fact :o

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So, she joined yesterday.. posted a post and you responded 20 minutes later saying she is great. What a coincidence.

When did you meet with her?

What are her references?

Where is she located?

What does she use?

How many people has she spanked?

These are all verryyyyy important things that a spankee would need to know.

kindy

My hunch is it is a pro disicplinarian that was on the site and then disappeared for a bit. If it is who I think it is she is a very professional disciplinarian who works out of Arizona area. If it is her, I am not sure why she disappeard or even if it is important.....(it happened to me too when I lost my computer) or why she changed her name. But I had some really good convo's with her awhile back.

If LadyDi is completely new then my apologies and welcome to the board.

katy

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So, she joined yesterday.. posted a post and you responded 20 minutes later saying she is great. What a coincidence.

When did you meet with her?

What are her references?

Where is she located?

What does she use?

How many people has she spanked?

These are all verryyyyy important things that a spankee would need to know.

kindy

Kindy

I told her about this site and recommed it to her

last night when we were chatting

becuse she wants more pepole to spank and even a girl

it could be you

she has a lot of exp. she even has vidow to prove it

if you would have read her post she lives in

Arizona

i met her on line thru a freind and i was going to go see her

but do to lack of money becuse of i was in the hospital

she came to see me on nov 7th and she spanked me all weekend

and no she a is not a pro.

if you ask if she charges you will affend her

if you would like to know more

E mail her

She is a tru Discplinaryn

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My hunch is it is a pro disicplinarian that was on the site and then disappeared for a bit. If it is who I think it is she is a very professional disciplinarian who works out of Arizona area. If it is her, I am not sure why she disappeard or even if it is important.....(it happened to me too when I lost my computer) or why she changed her name. But I had some really good convo's with her awhile back.

If LadyDi is completely new then my apologies and welcome to the board.

katy

No katy she is not a pro

she payed for her own plane ticket to come see me

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No katy she is not a pro

she payed for her own plane ticket to come see me

No - I realized that right after I sent it. I have been away for a bit and am still playing catch up. About 15 minutes after I sent it I realized it wasn't who I was thinking it might be.

My apologies... just trying to be helpful. I hope my comment was offensive to My apologies. I was just trying toher. It wasn't meant to be. She sounds very nice.

thx, katy

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I'm a very experienced disciplinarian who wont put up with a lot of stuff. I spank for valid reasons and only those who are serious about needing help or wanting to change thier behavior.

Is there something in the water there in Phoenix? ;) I can think of at least four spankers from there who have a really good reputation among people whose opinions I respect and who have interests similar to mine. Perhaps you're someone I'm already aware of, but it's always nice to hear from a fresh voice here.

If your focus is on providing real punishment for those who believe they really need it, we may have nothing in common. But if you enjoy the social and recreational aspects of spanking we should talk (if we haven't already).

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You didn't answer my question... who other then colo_native knows you exist? What are your references????

kindy

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You didn't answer my question... who other then colo_native knows you exist? What are your references????

kindy

well i have spanked 5 men in phoenix just with in the past few months who keep comming back. I have spanked 3 men who live in colorado who also keep coming back. one in maine, two in pensylvania, one in hawaii, one in texas. I'm not sure if they are all familair with this site or not but i could deffinately ask them and if they are im sure they would love to talk to you. I also play online with webcam spankings so in that area there have been quite a few too many to count honestly. I have done phone sessions as well with a select few. And last but not least i have a few filmed sessions but im not a pro and honestly am giving you the curtesy of answering all of your questions that come across very rude at that. I'm not here to explain myself nor do i wish you to explain yourself to me. You come across almost judgemental and as far as i know i have not disrespected you in this way have i. You either want to get to know me or you don't but i dont need or deserve this rudeness from anyone ever.

Diane

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welcome to the site ladydi you sound like one heck of a disciplinarian, glad to have you :)

merry christmas and happy holidays

Ali

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well i have spanked 5 men in phoenix just with in the past few months who keep comming back. I have spanked 3 men who live in colorado who also keep coming back. one in maine, two in pensylvania, one in hawaii, one in texas. I'm not sure if they are all familair with this site or not but i could deffinately ask them and if they are im sure they would love to talk to you. I also play online with webcam spankings so in that area there have been quite a few too many to count honestly. I have done phone sessions as well with a select few. And last but not least i have a few filmed sessions but im not a pro and honestly am giving you the curtesy of answering all of your questions that come across very rude at that. I'm not here to explain myself nor do i wish you to explain yourself to me. You come across almost judgemental and as far as i know i have not disrespected you in this way have i. You either want to get to know me or you don't but i dont need or deserve this rudeness from anyone ever.

Diane

Diane, so... what are the references? I'd love to get to know you. Sorry I am coming across rude... but spankees need to know they can trust you. If you can't give references for someone who may cross your path in the future then... uhm... how am i suppose to trust you?

Also, Id be interested to see what your opinions are on writing papers and why they are or aren't a good method when it comes to mentoring others.

kindy

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Diane, so... what are the references? I'd love to get to know you. Sorry I am coming across rude... but spankees need to know they can trust you. If you can't give references for someone who may cross your path in the future then... uhm... how am i suppose to trust you?

Also, Id be interested to see what your opinions are on writing papers and why they are or aren't a good method when it comes to mentoring others.

kindy

Generally i like to take my time to get to know a person before i choose to take them in hand as it is. If you and i don't have a good repore or feel conected in any way than i find it a waste of both of our times don't you. As far as trust goes that takes time always its not something you just give or get. You might also consider the fact that most people aren't so willing to put all of thier cards out on the table the first time they even talk i'm very sure you don't. I would also suspect thats why you come across bratty and rude which as you can clearly see won't have me running away. If you really want to know more about me all of my email information is listed send me a letter. I will gladly reply. As far as when it comes to writting papers its good for some individuals but not all. some need to have a more hands on approach i have found others do very well it gives them an oppurtunity to figure thier behavior out much better for themselves which is one of the reasons people search out discipline or punishment.

Diane

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so... no references?

What is your deal Kindy? It seems like you are just trying to be rude and obnoxious. Someone is not going to just post their references on a message board like this. It would be totally disrespectful to the people she would using as references to just share their information on a public forum. Why don't you email her if you are so interested in knowing who her references are?

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I'll post my references... Mainly starting with Miss Felony. I was hers for over 5 years. Then there is CP who has only known me for a short period of time but does understand my psychosis... or ... my psychotic-ness haha. And many more on this board I have spoken to for a good chunk of time.... and i am sure they would be more then willing to sit down with someone and talk to them about their take on me.

I also know a woman in California named LadyRobin and I will be more then happy to give you her name and number.

The reason why I am asking is because it is dangerous to just blindly go out and get spanked by someone who has no references and I think that if someone is so hesitant about sharing them.. then they are obviously hiding something. I have never had a problem in the past when i ask someone for their references.

What is her hold up? Seems sneaky to me, that is all. This is a community. Someone is bound to know her. I just wanted a name or two. Why so secretive?

Seems like i am unfortunately following my former Mommy's footsteps... being the bitch on the board. But hey.. whatever gets the flakes off and keeps this board safe.

kindy

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I'll post my references... Mainly starting with Miss Felony. I was hers for over 5 years. Then there is CP who has only known me for a short period of time but does understand my psychosis... or ... my psychotic-ness haha. And many more on this board I have spoken to for a good chunk of time.... and i am sure they would be more then willing to sit down with someone and talk to them about their take on me.

I also know a woman in California named LadyRobin and I will be more then happy to give you her name and number.

The reason why I am asking is because it is dangerous to just blindly go out and get spanked by someone who has no references and I think that if someone is so hesitant about sharing them.. then they are obviously hiding something. I have never had a problem in the past when i ask someone for their references.

What is her hold up? Seems sneaky to me, that is all. This is a community. Someone is bound to know her. I just wanted a name or two. Why so secretive?

Seems like i am unfortunately following my former Mommy's footsteps... being the bitch on the board. But hey.. whatever gets the flakes off and keeps this board safe.

kindy

because the majority of my referances happen to be very well known members in thier respective communities and many are married and im not the type of person who is willing to ruin someones life just to make a person like you feel they got there way. now you can either talk to me or not im not really interested in what you believe about me or not thats your issue not mine. a friend i spank told me about this site and how nice and considerate people are on here he obviously never talked to or meet you because you seem to be a complete pain in what you need spanked. with that being said im done answering your questions. im glad you deal with people that have no problems with you outing them in anyway and that you would actually be ignorant enough to do so to prove something to someone but thats just not me. have a great night a good day and please leave me be.

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What is your deal Kindy? It seems like you are just trying to be rude and obnoxious. Someone is not going to just post their references on a message board like this. It would be totally disrespectful to the people she would using as references to just share their information on a public forum. Why don't you email her if you are so interested in knowing who her references are?

thank you very much for your support when it came to dealing with Kandy at least it seems you have some understanding that most men have a hard enough time admitting they need or want to be spanked as it is to out them is cruel and just plain wrong.

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welcome to the site ladydi you sound like one heck of a disciplinarian, glad to have you :)

merry christmas and happy holidays

Ali

Thank you for the nice welcome and i hope you have a merry christmas and new year as well.

Diane

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No - I realized that right after I sent it. I have been away for a bit and am still playing catch up. About 15 minutes after I sent it I realized it wasn't who I was thinking it might be.

My apologies... just trying to be helpful. I hope my comment was offensive to My apologies. I was just trying toher. It wasn't meant to be. She sounds very nice.

thx, katy

thank you and i do realize there is someone out there with a very similar name on line and in the spanking community i never take offense to it i just never felt it was right to take money when what you are trying to do is help someone

Diane

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I specificly try to avoid the never ending melodrama that infests these forums, but the level of rudeness and disrespect being displayed here by kindy is worth commenting on. At first I thought she was trolling until I realized she may actually be serious.

Ladydi is "hiding something," "a flake" and "unsafe" because she operates under a modicum of discretion? That's absurd.

It's one thing to not have references. It's another to not post them publicly on a forum. If you want someone's references, PM them privately and discuss it. No one I know, top or bottom, wants their private business aired in public.

Also given that you threw out a bunch of handles as references of your own, you might consider that not everyone who engages in disciplinary spanking is necessarily a member of this site or any other. It's not always so simple as to just point to other members here. To my knowledge, for example, neither of the people I would offer as references are members of this forum, so I would have to offer contact info, and before I did that I would have to contact them on a case-by-case basis to give them a heads up that I'm going to use them as a reference and that someone may be contacting them, etc. And if you think I'm going to post their info on a public forum, you are sorely mistaken. And even if they were members of this site, it's not something to air publicly. I would never violate any of my partners' confidence or trust that way nor would I have a partner who would without my prior permission.

You might also consider that "it is dangerous to just blindly go out and get spanked" by people with references also. References or not, and discipline or not, you need to get to know your spanker well and communicate a lot over time before allowing anyone to spank you. Even if someone has demonstrated that they are a safe and reliable disciplinarian, and a good spanker by one person's standards doesn't necessarily mean they will be good for you. You need to talk a lot to find out. Do you expect people to do that on a public forum too?

And while we are calling out other posters here, why don't we have a look at this nugget:

I'll post my references... Mainly starting with Miss Felony. I was hers for over 5 years.

Your profile states that you are 21. So you are telling us that you had an adult consentual spanker at or before the age of 16? Either someone is peddling beachfront property or "felony" isn't just the name of the spanker here.

does understand my psychosis

indeed

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Diane, so... what are the references? I'd love to get to know you. Sorry I am coming across rude... but spankees need to know they can trust you.

kindy

I can understand her not wanting to post names of people she spanked. I'd like to see a web site where she describes her interests and philosoply, her methods, her availability, and (I know some don't care about this) what she looks like. I've just made it a policy that if I don't see a picture or have an in-person meeting then, other than perhaps some on-line flirting, I don't take it any further. No sweat-pants clad fullbacks for me. Sorry if that's rude, but it spoils my fun.

I understand that many spankers are very private people and don't want a web site. I've probably passed up a couple of good spankings because I care about appearance and some spankers don't want their photos floating around the ether. My loss, sometimes, but there are more fish in the sea. Don't chase the ones that are too much trouble.

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I can understand her not wanting to post names of people she spanked. I'd like to see a web site where she describes her interests and philosoply, her methods, her availability, and (I know some don't care about this) what she looks like. I've just made it a policy that if I don't see a picture or have an in-person meeting then, other than perhaps some on-line flirting, I don't take it any further. No sweat-pants clad fullbacks for me. Sorry if that's rude, but it spoils my fun.

I understand that many spankers are very private people and don't want a web site. I've probably passed up a couple of good spankings because I care about appearance and some spankers don't want their photos floating around the ether. My loss, sometimes, but there are more fish in the sea. Don't chase the ones that are too much trouble.

Is there something in the water on this forum?

Why on earth would a spanker put up a website? Do you have a website up with photos of yourself describing every little thing about why you want/need to be spanked?

Email back and forth and get to know them. What's so hard about that? Get a picture while you are at it.

That said, I agree about the photo thing....Never meet anyone from the internet without a photo and at least one phone conversation. It's a matter of basic internet safety. And that's at minimum...You really need to communicate a lot before letting anyone spank you, regardless of what it's for.

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i wouldt want to have my spanker give out my Personal info

i heve been a member of theis board since 2006 and met a wonder full

woman .

after a few Pm s and then E- mails and and phone calls

and then public meeting at resttrant we have become good freinds

and she under stands my needs and what i was looking for

the key to this is commuacation and not bashing some one !!!

We both are are in the public eye and it could hurt our reputaion

if some one found out about our privet lifes

in this day and age you have to watch what you do .

Pepole have been fired becues of a my space page or

somthing like that

company ' like that look for things like that

My advice is to chat with them on line and go from there

This fourm is for adults way dont you act like one

and don"t act child

i belive you owe her a public Aplogey on this forum to

Lady di 1973

My 02 cents worth

To lady di welcome to the fourm dont let one bad

member discurage you happy Holidays

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