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My husband began to act like a spoiled, bratty teenager who deliberately tried to provoke me by letting his clothes lie around, throwing newspapers and magazines on the floor and refusing to help me at all ever. I talked to my girlfriend four times, and finally she said, you know he was never disciplined and always got everything he wanted. I think it's about time you give him what he needs--a good spanking. Driving home the idea appealed to me more and more. When I got home I asked him whether he had taken out the trsh and mowed. Of course he hadn't.

I didn't say anything, but took a chair from the table and put it in the bedroom. I slipped on a pair of heels, picked up the hairbrush and went back into the livingroom. I grabbed him by the arm and led him into the bedroom. I told him I was going to teach him a lesson in adult responaibility. He just laughed and told me to go ahead. I sat down, pulled down his shorts and underpants and took him across my knee.

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It was his first spanking in 22 years and he howled, kicked and bawled all the while he was getting it. I did it thoroughly, long and hard until he promised to behave and to do his share. I told him if he didn't he would get another spanking and another one after that, as long as they were needed.

Things improved dramatically. I really believe a spanking is something he both wanted and needed and that he has a need to be spanked when he misbehaves. I intend to do my part. I'd like to hear from other women who need to spank.

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I didn't say anything, but took a chair from the table and put it in the bedroom. I slipped on a pair of heels, picked up the hairbrush and went back into the livingroom. I grabbed him by the arm and led him into the bedroom.

I don't understand the point of the heels.

Anyhow--congrats on getting him to accept his responsibilities.

Cocoa

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cocoa: I'm only 5'2" and my husband is 5'7." Heels cause my kneees to be higher when sitting on a chair and I think it made me more of an authority figure. I had pulled my skirt up up to my hips to be more comfortable.'

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cocoa: I'm only 5'2" and my husband is 5'7." Heels cause my kneees to be higher when sitting on a chair and I think it made me more of an authority figure. I had pulled my skirt up up to my hips to be more comfortable.'

You go girl :rolleyes: ! The world would be better place if people all couples would pull thier partner over there knees and spank them good when they drifted out of line. I for one am very proud of you , and your husband should feel very loved that you cared enough to show him the errors of his ways.

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I don't understand the point of the heels.

Anyhow--congrats on getting him to accept his responsibilities.

Cocoa

Hi there I am very new here, just joined up today, so still feeling my way around this great site!! I read with interest about the "spanked" husband story, I must say this sounds so much like how I was “taken” when I first got spanked by my husband! I was not “new” to getting spanked, as I was punished as a young girl at school and at home, but I never realised it would happen to me 18 years later by (then) my boyfriend! However I must say now how much I look forward in receiving and giving a spanking to my husband, keep up the good work, I promise you, you will see results!!

Kind regards

Mrs S Pringle

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Mrs. S Pringle:

Hi: I'm Sandi, welcome and I do hope you enjoy it. I don't have time to write much today, but I did want you to know I am the girl 22 who spanked her husband(husband spanking) over her knee. Honestly, I don't think I ever got more satisfaction or feeling of accomplishment than I did when I used the hairbrush on the place where it does the most good. If I'm really honest, I think I wanted to do it for a long time, it just took my best friend to plant the idea. You should have heard her when I told her what I had done. But that' another story, will write more later. Bt the way,I ,m not sure what you mean by "trapped."

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Hello. I must say I read your post, and all I could think of was what a lucky, lucky man.

You have no idea how much I wish my wife would do the same exact thing. But, it doesn't look like that will ever be a reality.

If any of you women are ever in NJ and want to show me what it would be like to be this husband, please let me know.

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Sounds like a sexual thing to me. You put on heels and pulled up your skirt to your waist?

I'm short, just 5'2." heels give my knees some lift. I was wearing a short, tight skirt and pulling it up made sure it didn't bind my thighs. Try it sometime. I don't think it was sexual, but our sex got better than ever. I was determined to give a naughty boy a good old maternal spanking over my knee. He deserved it and I'll do it again. In some ways I felt like a mom with a naughty 16-year-old over her knee instead of a husband who was behaving like one.

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I'm short, just 5'2." heels give my knees some lift. I was wearing a short, tight skirt and pulling it up made sure it didn't bind my thighs. Try it sometime. I don't think it was sexual, but our sex got better than ever. I was determined to give a naughty boy a good old maternal spanking over my knee. He deserved it and I'll do it again. In some ways I felt like a mom with a naughty 16-year-old over her knee instead of a husband who was behaving like one.

Sandiann

Any update on husband spanking? Has your spanking made a difference?

WN :rolleyes:

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It was his first spanking in 22 years and he howled, kicked and bawled all the while he was getting it. I did it thoroughly, long and hard until he promised to behave and to do his share. I told him if he didn't he would get another spanking and another one after that, as long as they were needed.

Things improved dramatically. I really believe a spanking is something he both wanted and needed and that he has a need to be spanked when he misbehaves. I intend to do my part. I'd like to hear from other women who need to spank.

Hi Sandiann,

good for you taking charge and just "doing what needed to be done". I am curious to know whether he had ever mentioned anything or dropped any hints about wanting to be spanked (or held accountable ) prior to his first adult spanking. Is the something you all had discuessed before. Since you said he bawled and kicked - was there ever a time when you thought you wouldn't be able to keep him otk?

katydid

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Hi Sandiann,

good for you taking charge and just "doing what needed to be done". I am curious to know whether he had ever mentioned anything or dropped any hints about wanting to be spanked (or held accountable ) prior to his first adult spanking. Is the something you all had discuessed before. Since you said he bawled and kicked - was there ever a time when you thought you wouldn't be able to keep him otk?

katydid

Hi Katy Did: My husband never dropped any hints at all. Driving home from my girlfriend's house (she suggested a spanking in jest) I thought it sound li ke a great idea. I didn't tell him what was going to happen, I simply took him over my knee and gave him a old fashioned motherly spanking. It really cleared the air in our house. He did bawl and kick, but I keep one arm firmly around his waist and so keeping him over my knee is not a problem. I also have told him if her ever tries to get off my knee, he won't sit down for a week. He understands who is in charge, and that he will get a spanking when he misbehaves. He knows I mean it.

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Sandiann

Any update on husband spanking? Has your spanking made a difference?

WN :rolleyes:

Dear WI: He has had three spankings, all over my knee on his bare bottom> When I tell him he is going to be spanked, he knows I mean it. I always take down his jeans and underpants myself, put a chair in the bedroom and put on heels and pull up my skirt. Then he knows I mean business, and I do. Our life together is much smoother. He no longer refers to me as the "little blonde hottie," or the "sexy little blonde." He treats me with a new respect, as do my girlfriends. I think every wife should have a hairbrush and be willing to use it for discipline when it is needed. A good session over a wife's knee is better than and more effective than hours and hours of counseling.

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After reading the posts to this topic, I've decided to respond from the "spanked husband" point of view. We did not start our discipline arrangement the way sandiann and her husband did; my wife would never have been so bold. Also, I wasn't quite the slopply, lazy male she speaks of. I do, however, have an interest in being spanked as a prelude to other marriage "delights". Over a period of time we progressed from a few mutual slaps on the behind to some moderate spankings across her knees.

Even though I am very active in work around the house (keeping the yards, painting, fixing what I can, etc.) I am still a man and have some continuing habits that annoy my Mrs., particularly carelessness and forgetfulness that has concerned us both at times. She is basically a "vanilla" person when it comes to intimacy, yet she was making the effort to cater to my spanking desires and began to enjoy the play. I finally decided that I should let her "really" spank me when my carlessness/forgetfulness became a real concern to her. She would never have suggested a real discipline spanking (even though she wanted to from time-to-time) because of our religious views on the husband as head-of-household. I finally suggested that I could delegate discipline authority to her for a brief period of time when a proper occasion arose and she could correct the situation with a firmer punishment than we were currently using during romantic encounters. She was still considering my proposal when my next "memory lapse" occurred. Since it was consensual on my part and was not being forced, coerced, or becoming a 24/7 lifestyle, she accepted my offer with a long, thorough spanking that left me jumping up and down (she really enjoyed that part).

Our activity originally started about ten years into marriage while we were in our mid-thirties. After about five or six years she chose to stop because of the frequent presence of our growing children; this lasted for 15 years before starting again with an empty nest. We are now in our sixties, and she has been consensually spanking me again (romantic and real) for about the last six years. Now when she thinks I am due a good blistering, she tells me to join her in the bedroom; if I go with her, she knows I am consensually submitting and she, by agreement, takes charges. While she is choosing the paddle of her choice (thin and light to avoid bruising that neither of us want), I remove my clothes. When I am completely nude, she reviews the problem areas with me (I type of scolding I suppose) that have brought us to this point; she insists that I understand what she is disturbed about and why she thinks I need to be disciplined. Once this has been covered to her satisfaction, she escorts me on a naked walk to our basement den and places a chair in the middle of the room. My wife prefers to have me over her knees because it seems such a juvenile position for an adult man, and I defer to her wishes and take that position. Once I'm bottoms up and looking at the carpet, she gives me a long, naked whipping that soon has me bouncing, kicking, and verbilizing any promise she wants to hear. I never cry, but I do give loud, verbal testimony to the fire she is spreading across my rear-end as I kick, fidget, and squirm around. When she has administered a particularly thorough blistering, I often jump around a little as I rub my bottom, which by then looks like a pair of fire truck fenders. When my dance is over, we usually embrace, hug each other a few minutes, and exchange a few kisses as the fire subsides. Most of the time at this point we retire to bed and make up; I'm sorry for what I did to prompt the spanking, and she's sorry she had to give it to me so thoroughly.

As you can see, our arrangement is openly consensual and does not permanently change anything about our household relationship, but every now-and-then, for a few minutes, we do reverse roles and I allow my sweet wife of many years to give me a fiery, naked spanking that may still show come color the next moring and be sore for two days. We keep this activity secret, and we don't play with anyone else. All of our intimate activity is exclusively for each other. We wouldn't have it any other way.

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Sounds like a sexual thing to me. You put on heels and pulled up your skirt to your waist?

Personally, I have great difficulty understanding how it could not be sexual when it's between husband and wife. As someone who isn't at all into spanking once remarked to me, apropos of husbands spanking their wives; "I can't for the life of me see how a man smacking his wife's bare butt isn't sexual." I have never been able to seperate punishment and sexuality, I really only find being spanked sexy if it is punishment.

Louise

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Sandiann''s post has stayed with me since I read it months ago. Finally, I followed her example and took my husband over my knee and gve him a spanking on his bare bottom with the hairbrush. What a change in his attitude and behavior--all for the better.

My husband and I are both 26, married little more than a year ago. He started coming home late after work, smelling like booze and beer. I warned him he was heading for trouble. Like Sandiann, I put on heels and waited in the livingroom. When he came in, jovial as ever, I simply grabbed him and pulled down his jeans. Despite all of his fussing I sat down on a chair, pulled him over my knee and spanked and spanked and spanked some more. He screeched, howled and kicked but I stayed with it until he promised to behave. If he does it again he knows he will get another spanking. Finally, we have order in the house and I believe he loves me more than ever. He knows I won''t hesiste to get the hairbrush and this is one reason, I believe, wives need to spank. Thanks Sandiann. It really works.

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Sandiann''''s post has stayed with me since I read it months ago. Finally, I followed her example and took my husband over my knee and gve him a spanking on his bare bottom with the hairbrush. What a change in his attitude and behavior--all for the better.

My husband and I are both 26, married little more than a year ago. He started coming home late after work, smelling like booze and beer. I warned him he was heading for trouble. Like Sandiann, I put on heels and waited in the livingroom. When he came in, jovial as ever, I simply grabbed him and pulled down his jeans. Despite all of his fussing I sat down on a chair, pulled him over my knee and spanked and spanked and spanked some more. He screeched, howled and kicked but I stayed with it until he promised to behave. If he does it again he knows he will get another spanking. Finally, we have order in the house and I believe he loves me more than ever. He knows I won''''t hesiste to get the hairbrush and this is one reason, I believe, wives need to spank. Thanks Sandiann. It really works.

I assume that, despite his ''fussing'' he must really have wanted you to do it, otherwise you would hardly have been able to. There are very few women (hardly any I would imagine) who can really overpower a man and spank him against his well. I don''t know how many wives there are who really want to spank their husbands, or how many husbands who really want to be spanked, but unless the husband does really want to be, I should think the wife is most unlikely to prevail. It is fortunate for me, for instance, that I don''t want to spank my husband, as I woud not have have a chance of doing it.

Louise

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I assume that, despite his ''''fussing'''' he must really have wanted you to do it, otherwise you would hardly have been able to. There are very few women (hardly any I would imagine) who can really overpower a man and spank him against his well. I don''''t know how many wives there are who really want to spank their husbands, or how many husbands who really want to be spanked, but unless the husband does really want to be, I should think the wife is most unlikely to prevail. It is fortunate for me, for instance, that I don''''t want to spank my husband, as I woud not have have a chance of doing it.

Louise

k, k

actually Louise spanking is not as difficult as it sounds. Be assertive so he knows what you are going to do and then do it. You would be surprised, I think, how a little determination translates into a reasonably compliant husband. He knows he misbehaved and I believe he felt he deserved the spanking and so did not resist when I put him across my knee. The hairbrush strikes fear and submssion into naughty boys no matter hold old. I''m glad I did it and will do it again.

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<!--quoteo(post=0:date='Nov 20 2007, 07:32 PM:name='Louise)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE('Louise @ 'Nov 20 2007, 07:32 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I assume that, despite his ''''fussing'''' he must really have wanted you to do it, otherwise you would hardly have been able to. There are very few women (hardly any I would imagine) who can really overpower a man and spank him against his well. I don''''t know how many wives there are who really want to spank their husbands, or how many husbands who really want to be spanked, but unless the husband does really want to be, I should think the wife is most unlikely to prevail. It is fortunate for me, for instance, that I don''''t want to spank my husband, as I woud not have have a chance of doing it.

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k, k

actually Louise spanking is not as difficult as it sounds. Be assertive so he knows what you are going to do and then do it. You would be surprised, I think, how a little determination translates into a reasonably compliant husband. He knows he misbehaved and I believe he felt he deserved the spanking and so did not resist when I put him across my knee. The hairbrush strikes fear and submssion into naughty boys no matter hold old. I''m glad I did it and will do it again.

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hay howdy,ive just reread all the posts here and would like to share a little burdon of my own.im a guy,and like most guys im very mischeavious and playful.ive never had limits set for me so in somethings i go beyond the borders. my wife and i have been married for thirty years.we have eight children,two grandchildren.in all of the years weve been married i thought it was my wife that was the disiplinearien.but achually its been team a effort.still my lovely bride has this power over all of us.it only takes a few words and or the look,and we be hop skipin and jumping to her tune.

my burdon is that i could use a good spanking every now and again to help me stay on tract. i get stressed out at times and need a reality check.like a caged panther,i bounce off walls. ive asked her to spank me ive begged pleaded propasitioned and coarced her.the bottem line is that she finds the very idea of spanking me so distastefull to the point of being ill.i cant make her do it to me with the thought that i will be ripping her heart out. ive thought of getting a pro dom to do me.but its my wife's hand i desire. this desire for a spanking goes back to when i was a child. my mother passed away when i was seven.ive been self taught at the school of hard knocks ever since.my wife has taught me what love is all about. i guess i'll keep bouncin off the walls. saltydog

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Saltydog,

I'm sorry about your craving for spanking going unsatisfied, it must be very frustrating for you.But I have to admit that I would feel much the way your wife does, I too would be repelled by the idea of spanking my husband, and I doubt very much that I could do it. Fortunately for me, I don't think he has desire for me to do so, but even if he did, i doubt I could manage it.

Louise

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my fiancee has taken to spanking me when she feels I need it. She tends to use her hand and a paddle I had and it really hurts. it helps me try to behave better though

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cocoa: I'm only 5'2" and my husband is 5'7." Heels cause my kneees to be higher when sitting on a chair and I think it made me more of an authority figure. I had pulled my skirt up up to my hips to be more comfortable.'

Really?

This just sounds like a another guy posting about a fantasy. Women just don't pull their skirts up to be more comfortable, in fact that would be much more uncomfortable. Heels? Heels are hardly going to matter when you heights are 5'2" and 5'7" . And the only reason a woman would put on heels and skirt for a spanking is because it appeals to their male partner.

I didn't say anything, but took a chair from the table and put it in the bedroom. I slipped on a pair of heels, picked up the hairbrush and went back into the livingroom. I grabbed him by the arm and led him into the bedroom. I told him I was going to teach him a lesson in adult responaibility. He just laughed and told me to go ahead. I sat down, pulled down his shorts and underpants and took him across my knee.

Wow, your husband must be really weak and you exceptionally strong. I am a strong woman but there is no way I lead my husband and pull him over my knee if he was resisting. Men are typically larger and stronger than woman. That is just a fact. Even if you were equally matched I still can not imagine that it would go as smoothly as you said if he is laughing a and resisting in any way.

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"My husband never dropped any hints at all. Driving home from my girlfriend's house (she suggested a spanking in jest) I thought it sound li ke a great idea. I didn't tell him what was going to happen, I simply took him over my knee and gave him a old fashioned motherly spanking. It really cleared the air in our house. He did bawl and kick, but I keep one arm firmly around his waist and so keeping him over my knee is not a problem. I also have told him if her ever tries to get off my knee, he won't sit down for a week. He understands who is in charge, and that he will get a spanking when he misbehaves. He knows I mean it."

Your husband never dropped any hints. Your girlfriend was joking but you thought it sounded like a good idea. If he acts like he can't take it you're going to give it to him even more. And, you mean it. Sandiann, If you aren't a male typing a fantasy then we need to get you cloned right away! You sound like a dream come true.

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I am a spanked husband and recently had a new experience. One of my wife's friends who runs a day nursery just had her business remodeled and my wife and I and three other ladies were invited to see the new changes. There were no children there as the owner showed us around. I was getting bored with everything and kept complaining to my wife. The other ladies were getting mad at me and my wife asked their permission if she could spank me. The owner said after he can test out my new nursery . My wife had me to strip naked in front of everyone and lay across her lap and spanked me to tears. My wife's friend then took me by the hand,still naked and crying to the very large kitchen sink and put me in it filled it up and washed me in front of the other ladies. She then moved me to the counter and dryed me off and put a diaper on me. She put me down and my wife made me stay that way the rest of the day.

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